Have you and your partner noticed how hard communicating is lately? Do your conversations seem to circle the same conversation? Maybe you have been feeling increasingly disconnected but unable to say anything. Or perhaps this has been the communication pattern for the entire relationship, but you are growing tired of the lack of intimacy just now. You indeed tried to compromise, however, you feel you are the one who MUST more than your partner. Or you might know when you began to feel unheard in the relationship but don’t know what to do about the loneliness.
Maybe you have expressed to your partner your concerns, only to experience the same repetitive pattern of disconnection. I’m willing to bet you have avoided the same loop as best as you can, knowing there is nothing you or your partner are willing to do about it. As a result, intimacy has diminished, and connection seems barely possible. If this is true, then it seems as if you struggle with communication. You may begin to feel as if there is nothing you can do to save the relationship.
Do you want to learn how couples bridge this gap with time-tested methods that instill trust and intimacy? Are you ready to work with a coach who can show you what is needed to bridge this communication gap?
THE COMMUNICATION STRUGGLE IS REAL
When we feel connected to our partners, we can accomplish anything. We feel their love and support. They even take time out of their day to encourage us or show affection. Conversely, if a relationship is in turbulence, then this feels very lonely and isolating. This turbulence, coupled with the fact that your partner might not own the behavioral patterns, makes it hard to connect to them. Therefore, one of the more challenging aspects of relationship coaching is looking at how you contribute to gain deeper insight.
Communication difficulties also impede other areas of life. Career struggles. Financial struggles and often lack of solid parenting due to being on different pages. Each of these areas requires a new way to approach and communicate through.
As a relationship coach, I help couples find authentic ways to communicate. Together, we’ll create new ways to communicate while healing various aspects that stop us from living fruitful and intimate lives. By setting clear boundaries, you’ll learn the do’s and don’ts of communication with your partner.
GOALS TO HELP YOU GROW
One goal of coaching is to help you stop negative communication styles resulting in disconnection. These patterns are as old as the relationship. Relationship coaching helps to identify how these dynamic has manifested instead of intimacy. Living authentically with one another means being influenced by the other and not abusing any raw material you might know about the other.
As a relationship coach, I support you in developing tools you can use with honest feedback to create positive change. Change comes when you are who you are, not who you are not. Relationship coaching understands the dynamics that brought you together while encouraging you to enhance that once strong connection. For example, couples often come together at first glance because of how someone looks. However, the more time we’ve created together, the deeper the connection can be, often forgoing the initial attraction. Buddist call this intention. This same intention is needed to make lasting changes in the relationship to enhance intimacy and connection.
The best chance you have of making relationship coaching work is when you are vulnerable and open to change and your partner’s experience. Listening to your partner and how they have experienced you in the past will bring greater awareness to the relationship. Again, you will likely not have to change much; you will show up more authentically. You will learn how to engage with your partner.
Relationship coaching teaches you how to create the relationship you want, create vulnerability and openness, and live happier. The relationship might seem pointless at this point, but I’m here to tell you that you can overcome this moment and flourish.
Questions that relationship coaching can help you with …
Is coaching different from therapy?
Coach is different. Therapy is centered around helping heal past trauma in a relationship and through your family or origin. Relationship coaching focuses on the relationship’s forward movement while not lingering in the past of trauma.
Since you are not a therapist, do you have to keep our information confidential?
As an outstanding member of the International Coaching Federation, I maintain the strictest levels of confidentiality with all parties I enter into a contract. Additionally, I agree with and comply with all applicable laws that pertain to personal data communication and the organization that ensures my credentials.
How do I know if you are the right coach for me and my partner?
Contact me. I’ll have a genuinely honest conversation with you on whether or not coaching, or therapy is good for you.
Call to schedule your free consult with a certified relationship coach today.
Suppose you are ready to take the vulnerable step of meeting a relationship coach to take your relationship to the next level. In that case, I invite you to contact me for a free consultation.
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